Not Invisible, But Not Seen

Not Invisible, But Not Seen

May 15, 2026

BY KATIE KNAPTON, CEO AT PHYSIO FAST ONLINE

A recent A&E visit with a relative at 90 made me pause.

So often my patients say, “you don’t want to get old.” And I’ve usually replied, “well, the alternative doesn’t seem great, so we should probably celebrate still being here.”

But this felt different.

Because when people say that, they’re not talking about services. They’re talking about pain, loss of independence, feeling less useful, less relevant.

I’ve always understood that. It’s part of the reality of ageing.

But what struck me was something else.

Not the clinical care itself, that was there. But the experience around it.

The absence of the small human things. No real introduction. No sense of who he was, or how he might want to be addressed.

And more than that, how quickly decisions get normalised, for the system, if not for him. Things that are routine to a department, but not to the person living them.

He wasn’t invisible. He was in the system, being cared for.

But he still felt like one of the numbers.

And that matters.

Because this is someone who was skiing just a few years ago. Someone with a life, identity, independence..…..not just a set of observations or a pathway.

That context doesn’t disappear just because someone is older. But it can very quickly be lost.

It made me reflect on something I wrote recently for MSKMag with Physio Matters, the risk of healthcare becoming increasingly industrialised.

Efficient. Standardised. Process-driven.

All necessary at scale. But not always designed for the person in front of us.

In many ways, the system is doing exactly what it has been built to do. Move people through. Manage risk. Deliver care at volume.

But in doing so, it can unintentionally reinforce the very feelings people associate with ageing, loss of identity, loss of control, loss of being seen.

This isn’t about criticism. Anyone who has spent time in these environments understands the pressure.

But it is about intent.

Because real care doesn’t always take more time. Sometimes it just takes a moment - to introduce yourself, to acknowledge the person, to recognise that what feels routine to you may feel life-changing to them.

Maybe we still celebrate being here.

But we also need to make sure it still feels like it matters.

Katie Knapton

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